In a normally functioning body, the rectum is lined with hemorrhoid cushions that aids in controlling and expelling stool. These hemorrhoids are highly vascular organs that line up the surface of the rectum to provide cushioning. Pathological hemorrhoids are usually cause by a prolonged diarrhea and/or constipation and straining, where the pressure inside the rectum is always high. These will cause the condition to get inflamed and, in some cases, may protrude out of the anus into the outside of the body.
Hemorrhoids are a very sensitive and embarrassing topic so oftentimes people choose to be silent about this issue. Especially for external hemorrhoids (those that protrude out of the anus), not only is it very uncomfortable to sit and/or move about with it, it is also very embarrassing during situations where you have to wear little or no clothing (water-side events, medical examinations, sexual intercourse) – most of all, sexual intercourse and more specifically, anal sex. This article will examine the correlation between hemorrhoids and anal sex.
Anal intercourse, normally, should not be painful, but if the receiving end is suffering from pathological hemorrhoids, then the condition could be aggravated. Anal sex causing hemorrhoids though is still a widely disputed claim. The friction and pressure caused by penetration could worsen the existing symptoms of irritation, discomfort and even pain – and worse if the penis and the rectum is not properly lubricated before intercourse.
Another issue regarding hemorrhoids and anal sex is the increased risk of contracting HIV infection. Anal sex already places the person at a risk of contracting the virus; having this condition increases that risk, especially if there is a cut or wound in the hemorrhoidal tissue. Again, the friction caused by the penetration could potentially wound the already sensitive hemorrhoidal tissue, and if you are not knowledgeable about your partner’s HIV status then he may just unknowingly infect you. Using a condom and silicon- and water-based lubricant on both the penis and the rectal area can minimize these frictions that could potentially wound the hemorrhoid.
Here is how to ease hemorrhoidal pain during anal sex:
Relax. Tense muscles, especially in the rectal area, increase the pressure on the hemorrhoids, more so during penetration. The combined pressure of the penis and your tense muscles can make the pain worse and could tear the tissue. Relax by engaging in longer foreplay too loosen up those tense muscles. You could also try a long warm bath with your partner and massage each other to increase comfort and relaxation before engaging in anal intercourse.
Lubrication. Unlike the vagina, the rectal canal doesn’t produce its own lubrication, so it is important that both parties lubricate themselves (the penis and the rectum) amply before engaging in intercourse. This will prevent the discomfort and pain associated with the act.
Hemorrhoids and anal sex can coexist together as long as both parties are made aware of the increased risk this activity could be to the receiving partner and both put up all possible measures to protect from pain and possible infection caused by the activity.